Do you sometimes worry that boys are not attracted to you? You are not alone, many girls do, even the ones that we may think would have no problem at all.
Take Lois for example , she is good looking and smart yet she often feels that boys don’t like her.
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She said; the few guys that showed interest in me for a while later stopped talking to completely .
This is appalling, it may or may not not her fault however if we should know what attracts boys, we would know.
So lets examine the types of things boys are attracted to in girls, what they find unattractive and what you can do to catch their attention.
What they are attracted to;
Looks and personal hygiene
What men say; once i was attracted to a pretty girl but her bad breath pushed me of, i am attracted to girls who cares for their hair, smells pleasant and has a soothing tone of voice—Desmond
If a girl always dress provocatively , it tells me she is desperate for men’s attention and this is a turn off for me. Yes, it may spark an initial attraction but not for the long run. I wont take a girl like this serious.—John
A girls standard of dressing says a lot about her same is hygiene. Men knows it when you put in efforts to looking good and they appreciate that. Men are attracted to women who look good and hygienic.
Self confidence
What men say; I find it attractive when a girl is able to make opinions about herself . When she doesn’t depend on others opinion about herself, it tells me she’s confident—Maxwell.
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I’d be interested in a girl who can express herself in a respectful and honest way. Even if she’s pretty, i don’t want a girl who always says what I want to hear—Lawrence
Be careful tho, don’t mistake confidence for over-confidence, it is a total turn off.
For instance a guy wouldn’t be attracted to a girl who brags , they see such girls to be shallow.
Key; Men likes it when a girl respects them whiles they still exudes confidence. Respecting a man doesn’t mean you should agree whatever he says. Know the balance between the two.
What they find unattractive:
Clingy girls
This is a no no, but most girls do this and this is how they loose the men they’re interested in. So how do you know you’re being clingy?
What men say; i think a girl is being clingy when she needs to know my every move and seems incapable of having a social life aside from me—Bryan
This is so true , you need to have a life of your own. Men likes the chase, Something about the idea of having to work for your attention puts them on.
Showing a little interest in what they do is okay . Don’t be clingy because you’re afraid to loose a man’s attention, it’s rather the opposite.
NB; don’t be too willing to compromise yourself to get a Man’s attention. They don’t value that.
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Fun fact; did you know, if you constantly demand for a boy’s undivided attention, you could sabotage your relationship with him.
Too much flirting
Flirting can be in the form of texting or physical. A little is okay, too much would ruine the interest.
Imagine this; when you over flirt with a guy, you’ve already made them know how it will feel to be in a relationship with you so why then would they go the extra mile to make it formal?
They’d keep you in that same zone while they ho on the chase for another girl’s attention. You can’t do anything about that because you’re not in a relationship.
What men say ;when a girl is flirty, I’d entertain her but I won’t take her serious.
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